From the Ministers’ Desk — September 2020

You don’t have to agree with our Unitarian Universalist seven principles to consider yourself a UU or even to be a member of a UU congregation. It’s the congregations, not individual members, that “covenant to affirm and promote” them. On the other hand, if you firmly disagreed with them or totally rejected them, why would you want to be one of us?  But you don’t need to answer that.

The point I wish to make is that we (we citizens of the United States) now face the real and present danger that our mostly democratic system of government will be replaced with an authoritarian form. This is obviously in direct opposition to our principle in favor of “the use of the democratic process,” not only “within our congregations,” but also “in society at large;” that is, the United States.  Authoritarianism also denies “the inherent worth and dignity of every person” and conflicts with the goal of “justice, equity, and compassion in human relations.”

I won’t try to present a brief in support of my fear of authoritarianism. The attack on the postal service, just prior to the election, with the pandemic endangering the old-fashioned system of same-day in-person voting is hard to understand otherwise. (And, of course, I’m writing this about two weeks before you’ll read it, and a lot could change during that time.)  My point is that it is our religious duty (as well as our moral and political duty) to oppose the authoritarian threat.

What can we do? Though it may be tempting to hide from frightening news, keep yourself informed–from multiple reliable sources. Share your views with others–family, friends, neighbors, the person next to you in line at the Wawa. How you do this will, of course, depend on who the others are–with some, the best approach might be reasonably modest and innocent questions. And don’t forget letters to the editor and to elected officials. And, then, there are social media. Support organizations–UU and others–working on this, with your time, your talent, your resources.

We live in a difficult time. Take care of yourself, and your family. Eat, sleep, exercise, read something distracting, listen to (or make) music, keep a diary. Be available to others in our fellowship, and be willing to reach out to others. And, remember that your ministers are here for you, probably not in person, but phone and email work.

I almost forgot prayer. How could a minister forget prayer? Share your feelings with God (belief in God not required)–your anger, your fear, your frustration, your hope, your thanks.

Love, Dave

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President’s Message — September 2020

“Be Patient. Be Kind. Wear a Mask.” ~ Sign seen in various business establishments

I routinely drive by the Pughtown Agway which has the above message up on their sign board since they re-opened in March (full transparency, they end the message with “No Mask – No Service”). I still smile every time I see the sign because those simple words pretty much sum up all that it is needed to get by in this world right now. And this holds true for the UUFP.

 Being Patient  means to accept delays, problems or setbacks without becoming annoyed or anxious. It will be very important for the members and friends of the UUFP to be patient as we continue to move forward with utilizing technology for our Sunday services. If you have participated in any of the on-line vespers, services or coffee hours, you have seen that there have been many “glitches” along the way. The Worship Committee and Technology Committee are working hard to improve the experiences (and their efforts are greatly appreciated). We are learning as we go. So please join us for Sunday Services and please be patient as we continue to learn and evolve using the technology.

Being Kind  means to show a friendly, generous and considerate nature. Kindness is not a new behavior for the members and friends of the UUFP. Especially when it comes to being generous. People within the fellowship have historically been generous with finances and with their time. I would like to ask that people continue with their generosity as we move forward with our virtual presence. If you have suggestions as to how to improve the on-line experience, please share. If you have experience with technology and you have ideas or would like to assist with improving the experience, please let the Technology Committee know. If you have ideas for how to improve the flow of Sunday services or ideas for topics that are more suitable for the on-line platform, please let the Worship Committee know. Please be generous with your support of efforts to evolve our on-line presence.

 Wear a Mask.  My mask protects you. Your mask protects me.

In Gratitude, Linda

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UUFP Sunday Service – August 2nd, 2020 – The New Normal

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August 2020 Virtual Services

The services for August will be on the 2nd, 16th and 30th. Mary and/or Emily will be involved in each service. With the “new normal” of the world, we’re trying to stay as topical as we can, so join us virtually for a morning of inspiration and conversation. The subject for each service are TBD.

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UUFP Vespers – Wednesday, July 29, 2020 – 8pm

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UUFP Vespers – Wednesday, July 22, 2020 – 8pm

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UUFP Sunday Service – July 19th, 2020 – Welcome Back!

Speakers: Emily Quarles-Mowrer & Mary Ryan . Mary and Emily lead a discussion about the events of the last few months and catch up on what everyone has been up to during our stay-at –home time.

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UUFP Vespers – Wednesday, July 15, 2020 – 8pm

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UUFP Vespers – Wednesday, July 08, 2020 – 8pm

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From the Ministers Desk — August 2020

Dear Ones,

How goes it with you? No really, how goes it with you? How goes it with your soul? The pandemic wears on, the election draws near, the air is filled with hope and anxiety on all fronts. You may feel alone and isolated, but you are on our minds – the ministers, the leaders, your fellow members and friends of UUFP.

One of my favorite hymns is #126, a UU take on “Come thou font of every blessing.” The line that comes to mind is: “When we all serve one another, then our heaven is begun.”

But how can we best serve each other? It looks as if we will be open but virtual for the long haul. That means that our face to face connections must be via technology, one way or another. Our Wednesday Vespers have been lovely, but with a tiny group of people (the recorded services are also avail- able on the website). Rick Duske (St. Rick of the Tech) is working with the worship committee to bring some form of Sunday services to you, hopefully from our sanctuary. But this will work only if you participate. Linda K. has written urging you to avail yourself of UUFP tech support to be able to connect. It’s not hard, it’s not wildly expensive. Help is available. We can serve one another.

Just recently the nation lost John Lewis, one of the last great heroes of the Civil Rights era. Historian John Meacham said that Lewis believed that if enough of us banded  together, we could bring about the Kingdom of God – or the Kindom, if you prefer, or the Great Human Project for Justice, Equity and Compassion. Strengthening your ties to UUFP is one first step towards that banding together.  As we serve one another we become stronger for the commitment to the great work of democracy.

As always, your ministers are available to listen, to care, to hold your virtual hand; if you want to discuss, make suggestions, pray, pose questions, muse, complain, rail at the universe (or God; she’s tough and can take it), or just to chat.

Blessings, Kerry

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