President’s Message — April 2024

“Receiving feedback. does not mean that I am the worst person that ever lived. It only means that someone cares enough to tell me how to improve.” ~ Joseph Folkman

The Board of Directors of the UUFP asked members and friends to complete a brief survey to help us think about what areas to focus on as we continue to strategize about how keep our fellowship thriving. I want to thank everyone (all 27 of you) who filled out a survey. The written feedback was especially helpful in determining what action steps to take. I want to share the top line results. Please keep in mind that the Board used this to assess the feelings of the entire congregation. While the congregation is made up individuals, each with unique perspectives and points of view, the board needed to step back and look at the overall input and trends. That does not mean that any negative feedback is disregarded. We will use this feedback as a filter to ask ourselves how to be more improve on a specific topic.

As a reminder, people we asked to score the following statements with Strongly Agree, Agree, Neither Agree or Disagree, Disagree and Strongly Disagree:

  • I feel a sense of belonging at UUFP
  • I feel like I have a voice at UUFP
  • I feel that I can be my true self at UUFP
  • I feel appreciated at UUFP
  • I have confidence in the governing structure of UUFP

Approximately 80-85 percent of respondents scored Strongly Agree or Agree for all statements. However, there were individuals who responded with Strongly Disagree or Disagree for all statements. These scores, along with the written feedback, enabled the board to identity the following areas to focus on:

  • Create more opportunities to express and demonstrate appreciation.
  • “Building Bridges” across the gaps that are created by each of us being our own unique person. Often our differences create strong divides. We as a fellowship can learn to bridge those gaps while remaining unique ourselves.
  • Strong desire to have more alignment with the UUA and UU principles (including hosting/participating more community and social action events).
  • Continue with the evolution of the UUFP as it relates to adding new members, strengthening our CYRE and doing more Adult RE programming.
  • Add new members to the Board (please let us know if you have interest).

Thank you to all who responded. Thank you for caring enough about UUFP to provide the feedback. Please keep the input coming–don’t wait for a formal survey. If you have any suggestions, please discuss them with a member of the Board.

“Be the change you want to see.”

With Gratitude, Linda

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Sunday Service — April 7, 2024

Compassionate Listening. Guest Speaker: Rev. Kim Wilson

Compassionate listening is a way of being with others that can empower us to transform conflict and create peace and healing. It includes a commitment to listen and speak from the heart. We will be introduced to the work of the Compassionate Listening Project, which cultivates practices that bring people together across differences. Following the service, we’re invited to join Rev. Kim during coffee hour, when she will lead us in an experiential workshop on Compassionate Listening and Communication.

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Sunday Service — April 14, 2024

Healing. Guest Speaker: Janet Hoffman

Healing is a journey. Many different modalities are used in this journey. One key component is the use of Energy. This energy is called different with each system: Chi/Qi in Chinese medicine, Prana in yoga, the Divine Energy in Reiki. This talk will focus on Shiatsu which follows the principles of Acupuncture and Reiki, and works with the chakra system. Once energy is balanced and moving freely, the body is capable of healing itself.

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Sunday Service — April 21, 2024

Life Lessons From My Little Pony: Honesty. Speaker: Emily Quarles-Mowrer

This is the fourth installment of a sermon series inspired by our Unitarian Universalist Principles, as viewed through the lens of the cartoon series My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic.

The six main ponies from the popular kids show each embody different qualities and display different talents. Applejack’s honesty and strength will inspire us as we tackle our fifth principle, “The right of conscience and the use of the democratic process within our congregations and in society at large.”

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Sunday Service — April 28, 2024

Beltane and Beyond. Guest Speaker: Diane Awenydd Evans

Diane is a third degree Initiate of the Assembly of the Sacred Wheel and the High Priestess of the Weavers of the Moonfire, a Wiccan Coven of the Assembly. Her favorite part of being Clergy is officiating at Weddings and Handfastings. Today, Diane will present a service that explores our ideas on Faith, where we find it and how we practice it.

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Introducing the CYRE Committee

Welcome, families! UUFP is proud to say that we’ve grown enough this past year to warrant a
new committee! The Children and Youth Religious Education Committee (CYRE) will be a voice for our burgeoning youth programs and a liaison between parents, teachers, and
congregational leadership. I am honored to serve as the current chair of the CYRE committee. I have three children ages 6-11 who attend programs here, and I have several years’ experience in education myself. I’m very excited to work with our devoted RE team to provide meaningful,
engaging exploration of UU values to our youth. Please feel free to find me or one of our
teachers during coffee hour on Sundays if you have any questions about RE at UUFP, or if
you’d like to join the committee!

~Valery Murdock, CYRE Committee Chair

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President’s Message — March 2024

“Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?‘”

The UUFP is looking for a few good people. First, we are looking for people to serve on the
Board of Directors. The Board serves a critical role in providing governance to ensure the
ongoing success of our fellowship. As outlined in our by-laws, all board members are elected
by the members of our fellowship. What you may not know is that our by-laws outline term
limits for each position. While there are many advantages to having term limits, one of the
biggest benefits are the new ideas and fresh perspectives that new board members bring.
Diversity of ideas is critical to being successful in an ever-changing environment. Periodically
adding new members to our Board of Directors not only keeps us in covenant with our by-laws
but also infuses the Board with new energy and ideas. So, if anyone is interested in serving on the board, please reach out to any member of the board.

Second, many of our committees are looking to add more people. Our committees and their
functions are varied, so regardless of your skills and talents, there is a committee that could benefit from your participation. Please speak to any Committee Chairperson to find out more.

Third, we are looking for two individuals to represent the UUFP at the General Assembly
meeting to be held this June. General Assembly (GA) is the annual meeting of our
Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA). Participants worship, witness, learn, connect,
and make policy for the Association through democratic process. This will be a virtual
meeting, so no travel is required. If you are interested in learning more about GA or want
to participate, please speak with a Board member.

I’ll close with thanking people who have given of their time this past month: Miranda Van
Horn, Kay Price, and the Membership Committee held the UU102 class and Clifford Schulman held another Cooking with Chef Clifford event. Who knew fundraising could be so tasty. I know there are many others who have given of their time to support the UUFP over the past month. While I might not know who you are and what you have done, please know
that all your efforts are appreciated.

With Gratitude, Linda

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Sunday Service — March 3, 2024

Being Human, Together ~ Speaker: Rev. Kim Wilson

A covenant can help build a foundation of trust within a congregation. By creating shared expectations around the ways of being together we want to cultivate, we come closer to creating the beloved community. Of course, we are only human, and covenants are broken and rewoven, like a spider’s web gets torn and repaired. We have a covenant which was created some time ago and after the service today, we will join together in a short workshop to review and perhaps update it.

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Sunday Service, March 10, 2024

Eclipsed: In the Shadow of the Moon ~ Speaker: JD Stillwater

Since the dawn of humanity, eclipses have evoked strong feelings and symbolism, and an
enduring mysticism expressed in legends, theologies, and worldviews. Eclipses remind us
that we are minuscule observers of grand and timeless processes far beyond our control. Rich
with metaphor and meaning, a total eclipse immerses us in awe. In this multimedia service,
JD Stillwater shares the deepest and strongest spiritual experience of his life, and reminds us of the rare opportunity afforded us on April 8, 2024.


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Sunday Service, March 17, 2024

Life Lessons from My Little Pony: Generosity ~ Speaker: Emily Quarles-Mowrer

This is a continuation of a sermon series inspired by our UU Principles, as viewed through the lens of the cartoon series My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic. The six main ponies from the popular kids show each embody different qualities and display different talents. With the character Rarity as our guide, we will take a look at our first principle, “The inherent worth and dignity of every person,” through the spirit of generosity.

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