From the Minister’s Desk — November 2021

The most influential person today in the struggle to prevent abortion is probably Pope Francis. Below is the draft of a letter I am preparing to send to the Pope, on that subject.  Your comments and suggestions are invited. When I feel that the letter is ready, I’ll ask Rev. Kerry to translate it into Latin.

Dear Sir,

I am writing to you today about abortion, specifically about the right of women in the United States to choose to have an abortion. Nearly a half century ago that right was established by the Supreme Court under the Constitution in Roe v. Wade, 410 U.S. 113 (1973). It has long been under attack, and new legislation now before the Court, from Texas and Mississippi, invites the Justices (six of whom are Catholics) to overturn the precedent that has given two generations of American women the right to control their own bodies. (By way of background, I am a Unitarian Universalist minister, ordained 18 years ago.  Prior to that, for 33 years, I was a civil rights attorney, and as an undergraduate I studied philosophy.)

Jesus, as reported in the Gospels, never said anything about abortion. The word “abortion” never appears in the Bible. The most directly relevant passage in the Bible would appear to be Exodus 21:22:  “When two men fight, and one of them pushes a pregnant woman and a miscarriage results, but no other damage ensues, the one responsible shall be fined according as the woman’s husband may exact from him.” (Jewish Study Bible)  That passage clearly does not treat the unborn child as having status equal to a living human being.

The Catholic Church, Wikipedia explains, opposes all forms of abortion procedures whose direct purpose is to destroy a zygote, blastocyst, embryo or fetus, since it holds that “human life must be respected and protected absolutely from the moment of conception. From the first moment of his existence, a human being must be recognized as having the rights of a person – among which is the inviolable right of every innocent being to life.”

Ideally, the woman who does not want to have a child either will abstain from activity leading to pregnancy or will use birth control. But there can be mistakes or coercion, or there can be unanticipated health concerns. The child may not come into an environment in which it can thrive. Furthermore, our planet is overpopulated already, and the resulting climate crisis threatens the future of human civilization.

So my request is that you issue a statement explaining that terminating a pregnancy prior to the viability of the fetus (the standard of Roe v. Wade) is not forbidden. Thank you.

Sincerely (etc.)

Feedback, please!

Love, Dave

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The President’s Message — November 2021

“‘Thank you’ is the best prayer that anyone could say. I say that one a lot. Thank you expresses extreme gratitude, humility, understanding.” ~ Alice Walker

It is hard to believe that November, the month with a day set aside for giving thanks, is upon us. As always, there are numerous things to be thankful for within the fellowship. Topping the “Gratitude List” is the fact that we are once again holding Sunday Services indoors. I hope that people understand that this was not as simple as just unlocking the front door. A lot of work went on behind the scenes to make this happen. Thanks go out to the Worship Committee for lining up interesting speakers who can also work with technology, the Technology Committee for continuing to evolve our multi-channel approach for delivering Sunday services, the Kitchen Committee for modifying how we conduct Coffee Hour so that it can be held outdoors, and the Buildings and Ground Committee as well as the Aesthetics Committee who readied the sanctuary and building to be inhabited. It does take a village to hold an indoor service.

November also marks the month when Religious Education for children will return. Once again, Ruby Barnthouse is volunteering to serve as the RE teacher. I do want to inform everyone that the Board of Directors has decided to hire a fulltime RE teacher just as soon as our finances indicate we can afford it. Ruby has done an outstanding job, however, she should have the opportunity to participate in Sunday Services. Hiring a teacher to fill that role would allow that. In the interim, if there is anyone who would like to help Ruby out by occasionally covering RE, please let Ruby or a board member know. Also, if you happen to know any teacher or a college student pursuing an Education Degree that might be interested in this opportunity, please let a board member know.

It is also important to note that we will no longer have nursery coverage. Currently, the children who have been in attendance are old enough to be in RE. If a guest shows up with a small child, we do have a list of individuals with background clearances who are willing to volunteer to mind that child. If we start to see that consistent nursery coverage is required, the Board will consider hiring someone.

In closing, I will leave you with a quote from one of my favorite philosophers – Charley Brown: “What if today, we were just grateful for everything.”

In gratitude, Linda

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Sunday Service, November 7, 2021

In the Glazing Room.
Rev Kerry Mueller

If we are fortunate, we have a work place and a home place – but we also need “third places” where we can connect with others across all the lines that divide us. Come think about how spiritual endeavors help us create third places.

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Sunday Service, November 14, 2021

Courageous Change Lay Leader: Emily Quarles-Mowrer
Featured: UUSC Guest at Your Table Program

Guest at Your Table is the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee’s annual intergenerational program to raise support for and awareness about key human rights issues. This year’s theme for the Guest at Your Table program is “Now is the Time for Courageous Change.” The injustices and crises of the past year have emphasized the importance of our common goal – a world free from oppression, where all can realize their full human rights. Join us for a shared viewing (by video) of this year’s Guest at Your Table program to learn what UUSC partners are doing to address immediate injustices – as well as what they envision for the future. At this extraordinary moment in history, we think their stories will offer inspiration and guidance on the path toward justice.

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Sunday Service, November 21, 2021

Can We Say “Thank You” ?
Rev Dave Hunter

Meister Eckhart famously wrote: “If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough.” But “thank you” is a two word phrase. The second word is “you”. Who is this “you” to whom we are giving thanks?

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Sunday Service, November 28, 2021

Interconnected Roots. Speaker: Emily Quarles-Mowrer

Our 7th Principle reminds us that reverence for life extends to all living things, even the things with lives very different from our own. New research indicates that the life of a forest is much more vibrant and interactive than we humans may have realized. John Muir said, “The clearest way into the Universe is through a forest wilderness.”Join us as we rediscover the Universe through the lives of trees.

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Announcing the Return of a Pre-Pandemic Treat

First Tuesdays: Ideas Discussion Group!

Save the date! On Tuesday, May 2nd we will reintroduce a Tuesday evening series of discussions for adults that was started prior to the COVID pandemic. These discussions are open to any adult with a curious mind who has a desire to discuss, debate and share their point of view on a wide and diverse variety of topics. Topics may cover ideas in a reading, an article, a piece of music, poem, or a short story–essentially, anything that is spiritually and/or intellectually nourishing, informative, and that fosters healthy connections with ourselves, our fellowship, the greater community, and the earth. The monthly topics will be chosen in advance.

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From the Minister’s Desk — October 2021

Our lives have been just a bit more adventurous  recently than we might have wished. We enjoyed the White Horse Village September Mystery Lunch, on a perfect September day, to a lovely restaurant in Chesapeake City, overlooking the canal. All went well until we prepared to leave – the transmission of the bus refused to engage. The mystery became when and how we would get home. A flurry of phone calls by management failed to produce a charter, so eventually they canceled the normal dinner bus route on campus and sent the smaller buses to collect us. People enjoyed shopping and the local bar, staff brought water and made sure no one needed medication, and we were home by eight. Then Dave – who walks everywhere and enjoys robust good health – experienced hip pain. He got a quick appointment and a script for physical therapy – right here on campus.  In the course of the following week our freezer showed odd symptoms, melting the ice cream but keeping everything else solid. The ice cream turned out to be a leading indicator of a totally kaput fridge though it took several visits by maintenance, and eventually the supplier to figure that out. Meanwhile, a loaner fridge just showed up in our garage while we were out shopping, along with a note, and a phone message and finally a visit from Ryan, the maintenance genius. After the final diagnosis, Ryan appeared with a brand-new fridge. Before he left, Ryan dealt with a TV issue.

There are lessons here: first Gratitude. These are first world problems, and the solutions demonstrate a privileged life. We have reliable electricity. There are back-up buses and a supply of loaner fridges for emergencies. The team members at WHV go above and beyond to care for us, and we are appreciative. Tipping is strictly forbidden (for good reasons, and there is a special fund equitably distributed), but I expressed my thanks directly to the staff members and sent messages to their superiors. At this stage of my life, I am limited in what I can do, but I do what I can.

Second, Humility. After much struggling with the refrigerator, it became clear that the new model is just 3/8″ too wide for the space, so the loaner is now in the kitchen until things are resolved. Having the freezer on the top makes it awkward to get things out. We are not entitled to convenience. (Nevertheless, Ryan came by to say the replacement is on order and should arrive in two weeks.)

And third, Compassion. Our relationship with our team members is more than transactional.   They take good care of us and we try to make this a good place to work. In community we look after each other.

I hope you read Linda’s presidential message, and take it to heart. WHV and UUFP and the US are all different sorts of communities, but they have much in common. To thrive as individuals and as communities we must act from compassion.

Blessings, Kerry

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The President’s Message — October 2021

“The greatness of a community is most accurately measured by the compassionate actions of its members” ~ Coretta Scott King

During the welcome of almost every Sunday Service, the words “…we are a caring community…” are used. And we are – the UUFP is a community of people who care deeply about the individuals, property and issues that define the community. This was very clearly seen last month by the number of individuals who came out on a beautiful Saturday morning to perform labors of love that helped to beautify our buildings and grounds both inside and outside. A heartfelt thank you goes out to all who participated with a special thank you to Maddie and Sam Barnthouse who did an amazing job cleaning the wooden bench on the side of the building.

We have also seen acts of compassion towards our members and friends. There are those who donate their time to give rides to Sunday Services to members who no longer drive. There are those who create cards for our community to sign to help celebrate the joys and acknowledge the sorrows going on in someone’s life. There are those who give their time and talent to create goodies for our coffee hour – and let us not forget those who show up early on Sundays to start the coffee that will go with those goodies. So, acting compassionately is not new to the UUFP community.

Now it is time to add more acts of compassion and caring. On October 3, Sunday Services will move indoors for the first time in over 18 months. While we cannot create a COVID-19-free environment, we can do our best to create a COVID-19-safe environment.  The health and safety of all who enter our buildings is of primary concern. So, there will be actions that the Board of Directors will be asking those who attend in person to take. They are:

• Masks will be required while in the building. This also includes the children who attend. If you have a medical condition that precludes you from wearing a mask, please let a board member know.

• Seating within the sanctuary will be set up so that people will be socially distanced.

• Only one person/family should use the restroom at a time.

• Coffee hour will take place outside (weather permitting).

• If you are not feeling well, please stay home and join us for Sunday Service via technology.

• Anyone leading RE classes or working closely with the children, will need to show proof of immunization as well as to wear a mask.

Now a word on immunizations. The Board of Directors has the expectation that anyone for whom the COVID-19 vaccine is indicated for has been immunized. There are those within our community who currently are not vaccinated (children and those with medical conditions where the vaccine is contraindicated).  The biggest act of compassion and caring that anyone can show to the greater UUFP community is to be immunized to protect not only yourself but the members and friends of the fellowship.

Finally, if you still choose to not to join us indoors, remember,  we will always be simultaneously sharing our services via technology and posting them to our YouTube channel (if you prefer to watch them later). There are now so many ways to participate with and be a part of our caring UUFP Community.

In gratitude, Linda K.

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Sunday Service, October 3, 2021

Euthanasia—curse or blessing? Lay Speaker: Jon Dreazen

Euthanasia—a term maligned and incorrectly used all too often. All it really means, from the Greek, is “good death”. But what are the implications if someone brings on their own demise by the use of various chemicals? Is it really suicide dressed up as euthanasia? And what if another person, let us say a doctor, administers the fatal dose? Is that really murder dressed up as euthanasia? I will speak to the views of various world religions as well as the UU stance on this critical issue. Please come prepared to discuss your own opinions on this challenging issue as time will be left for group commentary.
Outdoor Coffee Hour follows the service (weather permitting).

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